I-Let Go Ang Mga Maling Nakagawian at Natutunan Noon

Mahal natin ang ating mga magulang, syempre pero noong maliliit pa tayo, dahil na rin sa kanilang nakagisnan na turo sa kanila ng kanilang henerasyon na nagpa salin- salin until this day, tumatak sa ating isip ang mga iyon. At kahit hindi maganda o nakakatulong ay parang ang hirap kalimutan.

1. "Hanggang Dito Lang Tayo, Mahirap lang Tayo"

Kahit ilang beses na sinasabi ng Papa ko, how he really wanted to win Lotto at yumaman, kung parating ganito ang kanyang pag-iisip. Hindi nagkakasundo ang kanyang katawan sa kung ano ang sinasabi ng isip. Mind is so powerful. And whatever we want to be and do in life, we should be 100% clear and focused in achieving that.

So hindi tayo dapat CONFLICTED. O magkasalungat sa gusto (want) at sa ano ang dapat (need) nating gawin o ma-achieve sa ating buhay.

Maaring nagdagdag pa ang pag-iisip na kapag mayaman o nakakaangat sa buhay ay masama ang ugali o hindi makakarating sa langit. Mali ang pag-iisip na ito. As long as a wealthy person is not attached in material things, at ang kanyang blessings are helping communities at nakaka-bless ng ibang tao, then dapat nating pagsumikapan ang yumaman!

Say this to yourself:

"DON'T BE CONFLICTED. I KNOW I WANT TO DO or BE _______________, AND I WILL DO THE VERY BEST I CAN TO ACHIEVE IT!"


2. "Dahil sa Gobyerno, o sa Magulang Ko Kaya ako Mahirap"

Ika nga ni Bill Gates, "It is not your fault if you were born poor, but absolutely your fault if you died poor!"

Ang Tatay ko, mahilig sisihin ang mga magulang niya sa malaking pagpapalaki daw sa kanya at sa mga bisyo ng Tatay niya kaya siya rin ay natuto at nahilig uminom ng alak, manigarilyo at magsugal.

Alam ko mali ang mga ito, kaya hindi ko pinili na gawin ang ano man sa mga ito. Kahit nakita ko man noong araw na ginagawa ito ng Tatay ko.

Dahil walang nagpipilit sa atin sa ano ang dapat nating gawin, isubo or inumin simula nang tayo ay nag-mature at natutong mag desisyon para sa ating mga sarili.

We are absolutely responsible for all our actions.

Wag natin isisi ang kasalukuyan nating finance troubles, o hanapbuhay o piniling asawa sa ating mga magulang, o sa gobyerno, o sa kapitbahay o sa pusa ninyo o kahit kanino man.

Say this to yourself:

"I AM RESPONSIBLE FOR ALL DECISIONS AND ACTIONS. WALA NG IBA!"

3.  "Hindi ko Kaya Hanggang Dito Na lang Ako"

Everything is a learnable skill ika ni Brian Tracy. Tulad noong tayo ay nag-aaral at natututong mag-bisikleta, nahuhulog tayo o nagkakasugat, pero dahil gusto nating matuto, tuloy-tuloy lang.

Ngayon na tayo ay nagka-edad, tila ba takot na tayo na magkamali o madapa and we stopped learning or we dahil takot tayo sa rejections or heartbreaks, takot na tayo mag-meet ng ibang tao.

Wag matakot to try new things or to get a new hobby. If ever I wanted to be a baker, if I am 100% sure and clear that I'd like to start and try, then i'll do it. I go and act.

If others can do it, why can't you.

Kung may mga tao na kayang mag-race kahit naka- wheelchair at putol ang kamay at paa, ikaw pa, hindi mo makakayanan ang kahit ano na maisipan mong gawin?

Learn the new skill of asking. Walang masama na magtanong kung paano ginagawa o paano narating ng ibang tao ang success.

Even persistently ask God through prayers. There's nothing wrong with that, and just observe how your prayers are going to be answered. How resources fall to your lap, how people you need show up to help you.

Or you may learn from reading books or articles/blogs, or when you attend seminars and workshops by investing on yourself and mind.

Say this to yourself:

"I CAN DO ALL THINGS, THROUGH CHRIST WHO STRENGTHENS ME!"

 

If you were once a caterpillar in your own cocoon, use your power and might to break that shell of comfort zone, mahirap sa una, pero go lang and get out there, to transform yourself, morph into a beautiful butterfly. Like that butterfly in my hands. Once was an ugly, sticky caterpillar, but now a beautiful intricately unique and colorful specie.

Spread your wings and fly... Butterfly, kinanta ko na ang song ni Mariah Carey, hehe.

Additional reflections and Bible verses:

Matthew 7:7 NIV
"Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you."

Hebrews 10:35-36     
"Therefore do not throw away your confidence, which has a great reward. For you have need of endurance, so that when you have done the will of God you may receive what is promised."  
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